Articles about Divorce, Mediation, Finances, Custody, Legal and Psychological issues pertaining to Divorce.

SEPARATION AND DIVORCE
Couples who are facing these life-shattering experiences will benefit from the power of knowledge provided by the professionals who wrote these articles.

Talking with Children
Among the first questions parents must answer in a separation or divorce are how, when, and what to tell their children. Because telling children may be painful, parents could be tempted to delay this task. It is usually better for children, however, to know about the decision immediately, and before a parent moves.
A Child's View
Children look at the world differently than adults. Much of what they understand about divorce depends on their age. A toddler will not understand as much as a 5-year-old understands. A school-age boy will not handle his emotions the same way his teenage sister will.
Talking to your Children about the Decision to Divorce
For some parents, talking to their children about the decision to divorce can be one of the most difficult challenges to face. It can be very helpful for both parents to discuss ahead of time what information they are going to share with their children and how they are going to respond to their children's questions.
Helping Children Cope with Divorce
Approximately 50% of the couples who marry today will end up divorced, and almost half of all children in the U.S. have seen or will see their parents divorce. In marriages that are empty, conflict-ridden, or even abusive, this is the right decision, but it is still only the better of two painful alternatives. The children, who have no control over the decision to divorce, are often the ones most affected by this decision to reorganize the family.
Parenting During Divorce: Self-Awareness is Key
The welfare of their children is of paramount importance to divorcing parents. They want to know what to do for the children to lessen the impact of the divorce on them. They want to know how to reduce the chances that their children will suffer negative consequences. The parents' intentions are admirable, but the follow-through is often compromised.
Children's Emotional Response to Divorce
Virtually all children wrestle with internal conflicts and upset feelings after their parents separate and it is not uncommon for children to develop temporary social, emotional, behavioral and/or academic problems during this initial adjustment period.
The Decision to Divorce and it's Impact on Children
Over the years there have been a plethora of studies and research projects designed to examine the effect of parental divorce on children. Researchers and health care specialists have tried to answer such questions as whether it is better for the children if parents avoid divorce even if it means living in a "bad marriage", the classic example of "staying together for the children", or if divorce is a better alternative for all involved.
Kids Divorcing Parents
"You are a bad parent and I don't want you in my life any more." Most parents have heard this from their children and felt free to ignore it. Unfortunately for some divorced parents, this threat becomes reality.
Through The Eyes of Children: Healing Stories for Children of Divorce (Book Review)
Through The Eyes of Children: Healing Stories for Children of Divorce is a collection of fable-like tales designed to be read to children by their parents, therapists, or other concerned adults. The stories help children understand and cope with their parents' separation and the fallout from their parents' conflict with each other.