The following information will make you aware of some issues that accompany the division of finances during a divorce. It is not intended as a complete guide or as a substitute for legal or financial advice.

Even if your divorce is friendly, don't count on good will to determine what you should do about joint accounts. Be aware that either person can remove all the money from a joint account or charge up a credit card. Look at your situation objectively. Apply your own common sense. You should be moving toward eliminating the financial ties to the person you are divorcing. The ultimate goal is to create two financially separate households from one. It may not be possible to cut all connections, but your risks can be reduced. Seek the advice of an attorney, an accountant, or another financial professional to clarify tax consequences and other financial issues.

As you negotiate the division of property, think about your needs, the needs of your children, and the income tax consequences of your decisions. Things that were of great value to you in the marriage may be of little use to you after the divorce. One warning is to avoid written agreements regarding property prior to speaking with your attorney. Documentation of any sort is often considered valid by the courts and may stand in the way of equitable distribution of property.

Find out whose name the property is in and make sure it is changed after the divorce to reflect the decisions identified in the divorce decree. For instance, if a vehicle is in your name and your spouse gets that vehicle as part of the divorce settlement, make sure the title transfer is completed. If your spouse would have an accident after the divorce and the spouse is sued, you also could be sued if the vehicle is still in your name.

From your perspective, the first two options are much less risky than the second two alternatives. Remaining connected to someone financially puts you at risk. Even if you have to borrow money to get through the divorce, it could prevent problems later. Be sure to discuss your options with your attorney and/or a financial adviser. Agreements regarding assignment of debts and property should be clearly spelled out in the divorce decree.

You should attempt to remove your name from those debts that your spouse will keep. Write to companies and inform them of your impending divorce and ask them to close joint accounts or remove your name from an account. Request the amount of any outstanding balance, and indicate that you refuse to be responsible for any charges made after the date of your letter. Request a response from the creditor and keep a copy of your letter for your files. While such a letter may not fully protect you, it is better than taking no action. You can request that credit card accounts be made inactive while the balance is being repaid. This prevents further charges from being made on the account.

Remember that even after the divorce is final, creditors may attempt to collect on debts from both partners. A divorce decree will be honored by the courts, but may not matter to collectors - their goal is to collect the money. It is not always possible to remove your name from a joint debt until the debt has been paid in full.

The financial separation that comes with the divorce process can be made less difficult if you find out what your options are and remain aware of your financial situation. Understand that this process will take time, but the payoff is a brighter financial future.

For more information, contact the following:

• IOWA Concern - 1-800-447-1985 Provides confidential assistance and referrals for stress, legal questions, and financial concerns.

• Legal Services Corporation of Iowa - 1-800-532-1503 Aides in finding legal assistance for divorce and child custody cases involving low-income families from abusive situations.

• Iowa Commission on the Status of Women - 1-800-558-4427 Provides information, referrals, and publications regarding the legal rights of women.

Adapted for use in Iowa by Cynthia Needles Fletcher, professor and extension specialist, and Michelle Overstreet, _{Economics 3-3} graduate assistant, Department of Human Development and Family Studies, Iowa State University, from University of Minnesota Extension fact sheets (part of the Parents Forever divorce curriculum) by Sharon M. Danes, professor and extension specialist, Department of Family Social Science, University of Minnesota.